I am a: Quirky sysadmin. Geek. Gamer. Comic fangirl. My little space, my home on the interwebs. I blog about personal stuffs, work, various coding projects, and anything else I feel like.

I got several long posts started but haven’t finished any of them. So instead here’s something that happened today. This is yet another glimpse of what online dating is like for me: Random Dude: *Says something contradicting something he literally had JUST SAID* Me being me: *Points it out* Rando: “Do not even go there” […]

Once upon a time I fell in love with a man who said he was divorced. Turns out he wasn’t divorced, just separated. We talked about the future. My dumb ass waited on him, and then married him. Then we divorced. It nearly destroyed me completely. I swore never again. Then I met another man. […]

There was a conversation at work this week about love and those who shape the person we are. Someone argued that one special love shapes you like no one else. Someone else argued that you can love deeply multiple times, and they all shape you. I posited to be of the latter. Someone laughed and […]